Babies"R"Us - Baby Registry
Some lovely friends encouraged me to create a Wish List for items since we have never had a newborn in our home. We borrowed a lot of things for short term when EJ and Mo came home and they are no longer avail. So if you want to check out and help; THANK YOU. Also if you know where I might find some of this gently used for a great price that would be appreciated too!
Anyone have a travel bassinet I could borrow as well?
And, if I haven't seen you, IT'S A BOY!!! He is due sometime in April...
God Bless
It's God's Gospel
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
I take offense to that.....
Since we have embarked on God’s journey for our family and
adopting here in the United States I have heard a certain statement more and
more, and honestly it offends me, it offends my children, and I think it
probably makes our sweet Lord’s heart hurt a little too.
Before I tell you the statement, please know that this does
not come out of anger, but love, and a purpose to educate and get rid of just
plain old ignorance.
So below is a version of the statement I and my husband have
heard:
“I am so glad you are adopting in the US this time, I really
don’t like it when people adopt out of the country.”
Ugh…I cringe even typing that.
God’s Truth
John 3:16
For God so loved the World
that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not
perish but have eternal life.Top of FormBottom of Form
We all know this verse right, so do you see anywhere in this
verse that it says For God so loved the United States? No, and you won’t ever, because he loves the
world. After all he did create it and
everything in it.
So one reason I don’t like that statement is because my God,
your God if you call yourself a Christian, is not contained to the United
States. I will never keep him contained
here and neither should you.
Do I think that the hurting children of the Unites States
need our care? ABSOLUTELY! I would never argue or disagree with
that. But please don’t be so close
minded to think that they are the only children we AS CHRISTIANS (Notice I didn’t
say we as United States Citizens) are intended to take care of. Besides knowing
there are children here in need, I also KNOW that every hurting child in the
WORLD needs our help and they need to know the saving grace of Jesus.
Every
Single
One
Of
Them.
I also know that God willed and specifically hand-picked our
children for our family. He has shown
that to me time and time again.
So put yourself in my child’s spot.
Can you imagine how my children would feel if
they heard you say this statement to us?
They know they were born in another country and they have family in
those countries. Whether or not you let
your heart be changed about this statement please be sensitive to my children
about it.
I don’t know about you but I take the Bible, God’s word to
us, quite literally, and I have never once seen him specifically call us to
take care of our “Own” in the States. Have
you?
"Religion
that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after
orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by
the world."
James
1:27
"And
whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me."
Mathew
18:5
"A
Father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in His holy dwelling.
God sets the lonely in families…"
Psalm
68:5-6a
"I
was hungry and you fed me, I was thirsty and you gave me a drink, I was
homeless and you gave me a room, I was shivering and you gave me clothes, I was
sick and you stopped to visit, I was in prison and you came to me…Then the King
will say, 'I'm telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things
to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me---you did it to me.'"
Mathew
25: 35-36, 40
"A
man makes a plan in his heart, but God directs his path."
Proverbs
16:9
Just some truth, and a song. Bebo Norman is one cool dude.
Friday, January 18, 2013
FEAR & HUGE NEWS
I have one request, please read this through and do not skip
down to our big news. I really want you to hear my heart on this, so if you don’t
have time please come back when you do. J
Thank You.
Since becoming a parent my biggest fear has been that I
would lose one of my children too early.
I have had times where that possibility became very real, and in those
moments I can honestly tell you that I never once doubted God, his awesomeness,
his power to heal, and the strength he gave me to get through no matter what
the end result may be.
A little less than 2 months after our son came home from
Ethiopia, our daughter became very ill. (I know I have written of this before
so for those who do not know this is a short recap.) Elena had a high fever of 105 for a week, no
other symptoms. Towards the end of that
week she wouldn’t eat, wouldn’t drink, and to be honest looked like she had
been on a 6 day drinking binge. Blood
shot eyes, a strawberry tongue with cherry lips, and she began to walk like she
was 80 years old with severe arthritis. So in a number of events to follow, I
ended up in a helicopter with my baby being life flighted for fear she was
going to have a heart attack…she was 2 ½!
There is so much more to this story, but she lived, she was healed, and
the Kawasaki disease never reached her heart.
Praise God!
A little over a year later, one Sunday my son came down with
a fever. A mere 101 at the time so I
wasn’t too concerned, but it suddenly spiked and while in my arms he started
seizing. Say what?! I did not know what to do! As I held him and
waited for the ambulance I once again was in a situation where I had no
control. While in that ambulance I
prayed to God as I have done before to heal my son, but I also prayed for God’s
will to be done, even if it meant my son was going to see the face of
Jesus. Ugh! Does anyone ever want to
pray that, but I did and a lot of you I am sure have… He ended up being
perfectly fine, but in that moment I didn’t know. It was a turning point for me because I was
praying for God’s will even if it meant saying goodbye to my baby.
Most of you reading, if not all of you have had these kind
of moments. And some of us have lost
precious family and friends, and our lives have been forever changed. Tragedy changes us all the while God carries
us and holds us and loves us through it all.
We have been witnessing more of this locally and all of us reading I am sure
were deeply affected by what happened in Newton. We hold our babies closer and we pray for
their protection.
I talk of this fear because it is a human fear that I wrestle
with and I am sure will for the rest of my life, but because it also greatly
relates to another fear I have.
It’s not just fear of untimely death for my children, but
also a fear of losing the life of a child promised, a child whom I have never
held or met but love fiercely already and whom I would do anything for.
You see Adoption is a fear for me, and yes I have done it
twice but in my weakness I still fear it.
It is an investment like none other and it brings me to my knees like
nothing ever has. It forces me to let go of my humanness to control and give it
Completely to GOD and trust him. I fear
adoption, and I love it more than anything else.
With our first adoption it was a very real possibility that
our sweet Elena wouldn’t come home. You
see a month after she came home Guatemala closed adoptions, and there are still
precious children caught in the middle of that and it’s been five years. I Loved my daughter before I knew who she
was, God had whispered to me that it would be a girl, and then when I did see
her picture at two weeks old, I was done.
I knew she was ours and I watched her grow for almost nine months in
pictures and I did everything I could to get things complete so she could come
home. I prayed and I talked with God
every moment of that time.
Two and half years later we were blessed with Moses. This was a very scary process with some loss
I never expected, but we trusted God no matter what and our sweet Moses has
been home for 3 years now.
Some of my point is that anything can happen in adoption;
truly anything. Everyone’s process is
different, but I rest in the fact our God is always the same.
And so, here we are again in a place of great peace with a
Ton of trust in my God, your God. A God
who makes the impossible possible, and the scary hard bearable.
As most of you know we are adopting again, but domestically
this time around. And with this comes a
whole new set of fears. It is so
different that our last two adoptions, and there is always the chance the
adoption could fail.
You see this past Tuesday my family and I were blessed with
very incredible news and my first reaction was to hide it, to not tell, and we
will just wait. My first reaction was to
try and protect my heart because I could lose.
I realize how silly that is because the things that are happening have
God written all over them (and someday I hope to share more about that) and I
want to tell everyone!
My husband and I are whole heartily invested and in love and
I am going to tell you why and it is because this past Tuesday I found out that
I am going to be a MOTHER of 3 in April, and our family is going to become a family of
5! We have been matched with a beautiful family that I am so humbled to walk
along this journey with and to be a part of the Beautifully hard story God is
writing for all of us; however it may end.
We are soooo stinking excited I tell you, so excited!
So even though a million what if’s could happen, and I fear
that this child may not come home, Today I stand trusting my God, and Today I
am celebrating the fact that I am going to be a Mommy of 3!
** A little side note** We have not told the kids yet, still
trying to figure out how to explain this to them, so if you congratulate us be
aware of our little’s who may have no idea what you are talking about. J
More to come and prayer requests as well. Thanks you for walking with us and praying
for us. God Bless.
To God be the Glory!
Jeremiah 29:11
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
Hand In Hand
Just a quick update on our matching grant from Hand In Hand. We should have a final # this week and will update you all on what God did with this wonderful blessing for our next adoption.
A few have asked us so if you missed the deadline and still would like to bless our adoption you can send that directly to us or use the donate button on this blog. We still have quite a bit of funds to raise, but God is working and blessing us so! You may also send to Hand In Hand to bless another family with a matching grant too; they are wonderful!
More regular blog posts to come after the holidays.
Also, if you feel led please pray for our sweet son this Thursday. He is having major dental work done in the hospital surgery room. Please cover him in prayer for an easy time and quick recovery and bring peace to our nervous hearts.
To God be the Glory!
Until they are all home......
Jeremiah 29:11
A few have asked us so if you missed the deadline and still would like to bless our adoption you can send that directly to us or use the donate button on this blog. We still have quite a bit of funds to raise, but God is working and blessing us so! You may also send to Hand In Hand to bless another family with a matching grant too; they are wonderful!
More regular blog posts to come after the holidays.
Also, if you feel led please pray for our sweet son this Thursday. He is having major dental work done in the hospital surgery room. Please cover him in prayer for an easy time and quick recovery and bring peace to our nervous hearts.
To God be the Glory!
Until they are all home......
Jeremiah 29:11
Friday, November 9, 2012
Hand In Hand
UPDATE- 11/9/12
My Family and God know the goal we need to reach so we can begin to start applying to agencies and we are off to a great start, So Humbled and Thankful!
This is just a reminder that if God has lead you to donate that those donations should be postmarked by Nov. 30 in order for our family to receive credit.
Please continue to keep us in your prayers.
We are excited to announce that we have been blessed with a matching grant opportunity! This is pretty exciting as they are hard to get, but God has blessed us.
Below are the letters that have been sent out via mail, and I am hoping reach all that I did not get by mail.
Will you prayerfully consider blessing our family? Our need is to reach $14,000.00 so we can begin applying to agencies to bring our next little one or ones home soon! Thanks & God Bless
All donations need to be postmarked by November 30, 2012.
As many of you may have already heard we feel that God has
called us on a new journey to provide a “forever” family to a child through the
process of adoption. We have started
down this path of adoption and will be excited to bring a child into our home
within the next three to nine months. We
have felt led to pursue a child or twins domestically here in the United States
and will be applying to agencies and then waiting for the specific child or
children God has for us.
This road to adoption is full of many joys and challenges,
the greatest joy being the inclusion of a child into our family and the greatest
challenge being finances. The costs of adoption include the expense of a
home study, adoption agency, lawyers, travel expenses, etc., with the total
cost ending up somewhere around $30,000.
We were recently awarded a matching funds grant to help with
the expenses of our adoption through Hand in Hand Christian Adoption, Inc. a non-profit
private operating foundation. Hand in
Hand will match any funds that are donated through our friends and family for
the expenses of our adoption directly to our agency. All funds received through
our friends and family will be matched dollar for dollar by Hand in Hand up to
our awarded grant amount. All donations
are tax-deductible.
Please find enclosed a grant award letter that will
explain more about the matching grant program from Hand in Hand Christian
Adoption, Inc. You can find out more about Hand in Hand through their
website at www.handinhandadopt.org.
You may also contact Hand in Hand Christian
Adoption, Inc. with any questions you may have.
They can be reached at 913-248-5015 or by e-mail at
handinhandadopt@gmail.com.
18318 Mimosa Court
Walking Hand in Hand,
Kent & Carrie Stamm
carriestamm@gmail.com
October 19, 2012
Mr. & Mrs. Kent Stamm
We have reviewed your application for a matching grant and are pleased to inform you that you have been awarded a dollar for dollar matching grant up to $7,000. The specific amount received will depend on the amount of funds donated by family and friends on your behalf. The grant amount includes both the funds raised and the funds matched by HANDinHAND Christian Adoption, Inc. If you raise $3,500 from family and friends, HANDinHAND will match those funds for a total grant of $7,000.
All monies will be disbursed directly to your adoption agency, adoption lawyer or other adoption expenses after HANDinHAND has received an approved invoice from one of these sources. Monies already paid will not be reimbursed. Only outstanding balances will be paid by your awarded grant. Monies will be disbursed up to the amount of the final awarded grant. Funds received over the grant amount will go toward your adoption expenses not to exceed the outstanding adoption costs. Funds received over outstanding adoption expenses will help other children find "forever" families through the general fund of HANDinHAND Christian Adoption, Inc.
All donated monies must be in our HANDinHAND office or postmarked by November 30, 2012 to be considered in the dollar for dollar match for your specific grant. Funds received after this time will go toward the general fund of HANDinHAND Christian Adoption, Inc. to continue to help children find "forever" families.
In the case of a disrupted adoption, monies will be held for your use for up to 1 year from the disruption then after that time will be used to help other children and their families through Hand in Hand’s general fund.
We are so excited to be able in a small way to help a child find a "forever" family. Thank you for being obedient to God’s call in your life to help a child. We appreciate your heart and look forward to working with you in accomplishing this goal.
Sincerely,
Trudy A. George
President
HANDinHAND Christian Adoption, Inc.
My Family and God know the goal we need to reach so we can begin to start applying to agencies and we are off to a great start, So Humbled and Thankful!
This is just a reminder that if God has lead you to donate that those donations should be postmarked by Nov. 30 in order for our family to receive credit.
Please continue to keep us in your prayers.
We are excited to announce that we have been blessed with a matching grant opportunity! This is pretty exciting as they are hard to get, but God has blessed us.
Below are the letters that have been sent out via mail, and I am hoping reach all that I did not get by mail.
Will you prayerfully consider blessing our family? Our need is to reach $14,000.00 so we can begin applying to agencies to bring our next little one or ones home soon! Thanks & God Bless
All donations need to be postmarked by November 30, 2012.
Dear Family and Friends,
Please send all donations made payable to “Hand in
Hand Christian Adoption” postmarked by November 30, 2012 to: (for tax purposes please include our name
on the outside of the envelope only…do not put our name on the check itself)
Hand in Hand Christian
Adoption, Inc.
Kent & Carrie Stamm18318 Mimosa Court
Gardner,
KS 66030
Thank you for your prayerful consideration in
helping a child find a “forever” family.
carriestamm@gmail.com
Start of Letter from Hand In Hand....I could not figure out how to get the logo on here, but hopefully will later today.
Dear Kent & Carrie:
Friday, October 12, 2012
Pure Crazines....
Big things are coming, crazy God things that ONLY HE can explain or know. We are stepping out in pure Faith on a lot of things....some I hope to announce soon. I find myself saying I don't know a lot, but with peace and an excited heart because decisions have been made and are being made and only God knows the out come.
With that said this is why I love this picture! It is so not the perfect family pic, but filled with so much joy amongst so much craziness!
With that said this is why I love this picture! It is so not the perfect family pic, but filled with so much joy amongst so much craziness!
Please pray for us. Pray for our family and our changes. And specificially pray for our next adoption that God provides all the finances in his time so we can apply to agencies, and that we trust in him and have patience in his timing.
God Bless!
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
147 Gift Orders...Order Quick!
Christmas is coming and in order to help you out we are selling some great product!
These gifts will not only give once, but three times! Help support our adoption, Give food, water, and medicine to a child in need, and help beautiful African Mothers support their families.
Order soon while supplies last! Just leave a comment or send me an e-mail at carriestamm@gmail.com.
Thank You and God Bless!
These beautiful Haitian Earrings are wonderful gifts for Mom, a sister, or a teacher. They also come in brown, but I had trouble uploading the pics. There are plenty of the blue, brown, and clear, but only 8 green so order soon. Cost $15.00
Sizes Small - XXL
Unisex Navy Tee- Cost $20
Sizes XS-XXXL
Kaboom Toddler Tee-$17.00
Size 2T-4T
Green Youth Tee-$20
Size XS(4)
S-(6-8)
M-(8-10)
L-(12-14)
XL-(14-16)
Order Today!
Thanks!
These gifts will not only give once, but three times! Help support our adoption, Give food, water, and medicine to a child in need, and help beautiful African Mothers support their families.
Order soon while supplies last! Just leave a comment or send me an e-mail at carriestamm@gmail.com.
Thank You and God Bless!
Ugandan Bead Necklaces are still available to order and I have 2 red in stock at home. Cost $20
Brown 147 Ball Cap- Cost $20
Leather Helping 1 Home Cuff-$10.00
Butterfly Tee- Cost-$27
Sizes S, M, & L
Long Sleeve Grey Tee-Cost$30Sizes Small - XXL
Unisex Navy Tee- Cost $20
Sizes XS-XXXL
Kaboom Toddler Tee-$17.00
Size 2T-4T
Green Youth Tee-$20
Size XS(4)
S-(6-8)
M-(8-10)
L-(12-14)
XL-(14-16)
Order Today!
Thanks!
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